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Baby Darius...:) @ 8/21/2006 05:47:00 PM

I know I am late. I know I should have share this joy to everyone much earlier but then my mind was preoccupied with other stuffs so I kinda procrastinated on this issue. But that does not mean I like him any lesser. Let's applause to welcome my little nephew, Darius. He was borned on 10 Aug 2006...hmmmm...should have been a day earlier hor? Then he would be borned on National Day and the whole would will celebrate his birthday for him...heheheheh

I did not go to the hospital to visit him. I did not visit him immediately also. I waited until yesterday to go see this little cutie. Oh! Goodness! He is really very adorable. His grandmother, who is my ah kim, was feeding him. This little piggy wanna sleep. So he was like half drinking his milk and half dozing off. That is why I like being a baby. Baby is always free of worries. They just eat, sleep, play all the time. Good life, right? After he was done with his milk-drinking, i carried him. I am quite sure he does not know who am I. To him, it would be just another someone carrying him and cradling him to sleep. So cute. Sleeping soundly.
He is so free of worries but not his mum. I was told that his mum seems to be having post-natal blues. Is it true? Can't be right? This cousin of mine is very much a tough girl. She has always been a '大姐大' so she should be able to handle all situations, shouldn't it be the case? Apparently, not so.
A few incidents was mentioned and it would really seem so. She has been constantly feeling frustrated over little issues. She seems to dislike her dog (which was known as her baby girl before Darius was borned). For no reason or rhyme, she would teared. I guess this is how one would feel if really having post-natal blues, right?
If that is really the case, I think she really needs someone to be around her as often as possible. Initially, I really thought that her family would be around her very much but then again, this is not the case. They are still very much busy with their own life. Pardon me if I sound very rude, but then, from what I analyse, it would seem that their care and concern for her is jus TALK. They would care, they would concern but once they have their own partying kaki, they clearly forgotten her and leave her alone to tend to all stuffs.
Well, it is no wonder my cousin would feel upset. If I am in her shoes, I would definitely feel that way, too. Furthermore, I am much more temperamental, emotional then her. But then again, maybe I won't even get the chance to give birth also. So, why worry unduly?