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 He is so stubborn :X @ 8/15/2006 05:39:00 PM My wedding day is getting nearer and nearer but he is not helping at all. Who am I talking about? He is none other than my father-in-law.As the day gets nearer, I am getting more and more kan cheong. Make a quick check on my list...oops! I realised I have quite a number of things not settled yet. The top priority thing is the guests lists. I should have gotten it planned and done sometime in July (that was my initial plan). Now, coming to mid August, the only list that I have accumalated, is from my own family. Really appreciate my family for helping out since the very day I announced I am (finally! heheheh) getting married. They really do whatever they can to assist me. Though I don't feel that affectionate towards my mother-in-law but this time round, I should really thank her for helping out also. Apparently, after talking to her a few weeks ago regarding the list, she has her list ready for us to pick up. Really gotten thank her also.
That means, we left only one last section not done. Again, that would be on my father-in-law side. I have been rushing my hubby for the list and I keep thinking he has not done his job at all but I was wrong until yesterday. After that short argument with him, I then understand why my hubby gets so frustrated whenever I urge him to get the list from his father.
We went dinner with my father-in-law and someone (forgotten who???) started on the issue. Then, all of us (my sister-in-law, her husband, my hubby and myself), tried our very best to 'knock some senses' into his brain. Sorry if I sounded very 'rude' but then, I really tak boleh tahan him when he insisted in his own way. Everytime when they are in a heated argument, I remain silent. But then yesterday, I really cannot keep quiet any longer. I decided to tell him what we needed him to know and helped with. He still stand very steadfast in his own way. He keep saying what he has done will remain.
Oh! I did not tell you what is 'his own way', right? Ok, he did more or less give us his list but then, he did not provide us their names or rather who they are. He prefers to lump them all together (base on his own judgement) to give us the sum of everything. But but but....what we really need is to more than that. What about invitation cards later on? We can't just send one single invite to that big family, right? What if they decided not to turn up? What if his judgement is not correct and more turn up instead? Won't it be in a big mess?
Aiyoh...the more I turn about it, the more worried I get....
Now how? Who can advise how should I talk to him nicely yet get my issue solve? Time is running out and I really do not want my wedding to be a flop or rather quarrel unnecessarily with my hubby because of this.
I think I am not being too tensed up this time round. The issue is, if the lists aren't out soon, alot of the other things would not be able to be done. For example, we need the lists to determine how many tables we need for the wedding banquet. We also need the lists to determine how weddin favours we need to get. Without this, none of the listed can be proceeded. Am I right?
Feel like telling my father-in-law: If you don't get the list out by XX, no more allowances for you. Most importantly, no more beer for u! kekekekek...how that sounds?
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He is so stubborn :X @ 8/15/2006 05:39:00 PM My wedding day is getting nearer and nearer but he is not helping at all. Who am I talking about? He is none other than my father-in-law.As the day gets nearer, I am getting more and more kan cheong. Make a quick check on my list...oops! I realised I have quite a number of things not settled yet. The top priority thing is the guests lists. I should have gotten it planned and done sometime in July (that was my initial plan). Now, coming to mid August, the only list that I have accumalated, is from my own family. Really appreciate my family for helping out since the very day I announced I am (finally! heheheh) getting married. They really do whatever they can to assist me. Though I don't feel that affectionate towards my mother-in-law but this time round, I should really thank her for helping out also. Apparently, after talking to her a few weeks ago regarding the list, she has her list ready for us to pick up. Really gotten thank her also.
That means, we left only one last section not done. Again, that would be on my father-in-law side. I have been rushing my hubby for the list and I keep thinking he has not done his job at all but I was wrong until yesterday. After that short argument with him, I then understand why my hubby gets so frustrated whenever I urge him to get the list from his father.
We went dinner with my father-in-law and someone (forgotten who???) started on the issue. Then, all of us (my sister-in-law, her husband, my hubby and myself), tried our very best to 'knock some senses' into his brain. Sorry if I sounded very 'rude' but then, I really tak boleh tahan him when he insisted in his own way. Everytime when they are in a heated argument, I remain silent. But then yesterday, I really cannot keep quiet any longer. I decided to tell him what we needed him to know and helped with. He still stand very steadfast in his own way. He keep saying what he has done will remain.
Oh! I did not tell you what is 'his own way', right? Ok, he did more or less give us his list but then, he did not provide us their names or rather who they are. He prefers to lump them all together (base on his own judgement) to give us the sum of everything. But but but....what we really need is to more than that. What about invitation cards later on? We can't just send one single invite to that big family, right? What if they decided not to turn up? What if his judgement is not correct and more turn up instead? Won't it be in a big mess?
Aiyoh...the more I turn about it, the more worried I get....
Now how? Who can advise how should I talk to him nicely yet get my issue solve? Time is running out and I really do not want my wedding to be a flop or rather quarrel unnecessarily with my hubby because of this.
I think I am not being too tensed up this time round. The issue is, if the lists aren't out soon, alot of the other things would not be able to be done. For example, we need the lists to determine how many tables we need for the wedding banquet. We also need the lists to determine how weddin favours we need to get. Without this, none of the listed can be proceeded. Am I right?
Feel like telling my father-in-law: If you don't get the list out by XX, no more allowances for you. Most importantly, no more beer for u! kekekekek...how that sounds?
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