3 months 1 week 1 day @ 9/24/2007 01:06:00 PM

Time flies real fast. Can you imagine? Jayden's already 3 months 1 week and 1 day. Hahahaha...in approx another 3 more weeks, Jayden will have get to kwee cho which means he can have a taste chicken drumbstick. I was still discussing with my family that I would wanna buy 3 different taste of drumbsticks for him, 白鸡，油鸡 and 烧鸡。Hmmmm...wondering what kind of reaction Jayden will have upon tasting these yummy chicken drumbsticks??? But as he is a prem baby, this kwee cho thingy will be for formality sake thus in actual fact, he will get to take in semi-solid food when he is at the age of 6 months only.

Looking at him growing each day, is really a wonderful thing to do. People might think I am crazy but I did mention before that by just looking at him sleeping, really brings joy. And the most important thing is, I am not the only crazy person doing it lor. I actually caught my hubby, my sister, and my brother doing that also. It is like sitting there and 傻笑。不知道的人might really think we abit short-circuit. I gotta especially emphasise on my brother as he is certainly not someone who would sit there and smile at one person so affectionally. Just last Saturday, before he left for work, I saw him sitting on the sofa and just smiling at Jayden though that little brat's gaze was not on him. This kind of feeling is really sweet. This also only means that Jayden is indeed well-loved, protected by everyone in my family.

Well, but then I understand that one will not be loved by everyone cos there are bound to be people who dotes on you while others don't. This thing happened to little Jayden also. I won't be naming them but I just heard from my sister last Saturday about an incident. Blur Jayden's mummy. She actually does not know that this thing happen. Also good lah...what I do not know won't hurt mah...right? In fact, I really do not mind if others do not dote Jayden as much as my family does, but then like what my sister said, he is just a baby only, you know? You gotta treat him like that meh?

Another someone who actually commented that Jayden look 呆呆的。 Said that Jayden looks blur and does not respond, does not smile as often. I am not finding excuses for Jayden but then as mentioned by the doctors, since he is a prem baby, he would be slower than those full-term babies. Ok, I do know that all these are harmless remarks but then pardon me for saying, at times, 说者无意，听者有意。 I have to admit that Jayden does not smile as often. He is really an attitude baby because he smiles only when he really wanna smile. If not, most of the time, he just started at the person talking to him. Well, what to do? Can only blame myself and my hubby look. Who ask us to be borne with a 臭臭脸and an attitude? 臭臭加臭臭等于更臭的脸。。。with parents like that hor, how smiley can our baby be hah????? ;) Poor Jayden, you gotta suffer cos of your parents...:)

Anyway, I am really okay about all the above I have said. Seriously and honestly, I am ok. Looking at the way my family vying for his attention, the time to spend with him alone, is more than enough to make me all smiles again.

Jayden, you better be good and not be a spoilt brat when you grow up. You better be sure that all the time spent looking after you, time spent teaching you the rights from wrongs are worthwhile ok? Grandpapa's, Grandmama's, Adelyn Yi-yi's, Terence Jiu Jiu's life have become topsy-turvy after you moved in with them. Not that they wanna complain but you have indeed made a real big impact on them.

So...you must learn to appreciate and reciprocate what they have done for you leh. Learn to love them more each day, ok? Even better if you can flood them with your smiles, hugs and kisses...:D

3 months 1 week 1 day @ 9/24/2007 01:06:00 PM

Time flies real fast. Can you imagine? Jayden's already 3 months 1 week and 1 day. Hahahaha...in approx another 3 more weeks, Jayden will have get to kwee cho which means he can have a taste chicken drumbstick. I was still discussing with my family that I would wanna buy 3 different taste of drumbsticks for him, 白鸡，油鸡 and 烧鸡。Hmmmm...wondering what kind of reaction Jayden will have upon tasting these yummy chicken drumbsticks??? But as he is a prem baby, this kwee cho thingy will be for formality sake thus in actual fact, he will get to take in semi-solid food when he is at the age of 6 months only.

Looking at him growing each day, is really a wonderful thing to do. People might think I am crazy but I did mention before that by just looking at him sleeping, really brings joy. And the most important thing is, I am not the only crazy person doing it lor. I actually caught my hubby, my sister, and my brother doing that also. It is like sitting there and 傻笑。不知道的人might really think we abit short-circuit. I gotta especially emphasise on my brother as he is certainly not someone who would sit there and smile at one person so affectionally. Just last Saturday, before he left for work, I saw him sitting on the sofa and just smiling at Jayden though that little brat's gaze was not on him. This kind of feeling is really sweet. This also only means that Jayden is indeed well-loved, protected by everyone in my family.

Well, but then I understand that one will not be loved by everyone cos there are bound to be people who dotes on you while others don't. This thing happened to little Jayden also. I won't be naming them but I just heard from my sister last Saturday about an incident. Blur Jayden's mummy. She actually does not know that this thing happen. Also good lah...what I do not know won't hurt mah...right? In fact, I really do not mind if others do not dote Jayden as much as my family does, but then like what my sister said, he is just a baby only, you know? You gotta treat him like that meh?

Another someone who actually commented that Jayden look 呆呆的。 Said that Jayden looks blur and does not respond, does not smile as often. I am not finding excuses for Jayden but then as mentioned by the doctors, since he is a prem baby, he would be slower than those full-term babies. Ok, I do know that all these are harmless remarks but then pardon me for saying, at times, 说者无意，听者有意。 I have to admit that Jayden does not smile as often. He is really an attitude baby because he smiles only when he really wanna smile. If not, most of the time, he just started at the person talking to him. Well, what to do? Can only blame myself and my hubby look. Who ask us to be borne with a 臭臭脸and an attitude? 臭臭加臭臭等于更臭的脸。。。with parents like that hor, how smiley can our baby be hah????? ;) Poor Jayden, you gotta suffer cos of your parents...:)

Anyway, I am really okay about all the above I have said. Seriously and honestly, I am ok. Looking at the way my family vying for his attention, the time to spend with him alone, is more than enough to make me all smiles again.

Jayden, you better be good and not be a spoilt brat when you grow up. You better be sure that all the time spent looking after you, time spent teaching you the rights from wrongs are worthwhile ok? Grandpapa's, Grandmama's, Adelyn Yi-yi's, Terence Jiu Jiu's life have become topsy-turvy after you moved in with them. Not that they wanna complain but you have indeed made a real big impact on them.

So...you must learn to appreciate and reciprocate what they have done for you leh. Learn to love them more each day, ok? Even better if you can flood them with your smiles, hugs and kisses...:D