Love is.... @ 3/20/2008 01:34:00 PM

What is Love?

I thought this does not bother me at all. For me, I feel love is all around me always. I have the love from my family, my hubby...and lots more. Since then, why would I want to bring up an issue that seems to be none of my business? That is because I see couples quarrelling then breaking up, some even ended up divorcing and that make me really stop to ponder over it. I always find it a total waste to see couples so loving in the first place but ended up in separate ways in the end. Is love that easily breakable? I thought people would always say "as long as there is love, nothing can break us through?????"

I got the meaning of LOVE from dictionary and it says...."A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness."

But really, what is love? Or rather what is love to oneself? Different people have different say to it. Some say, to love someone is to: -

1) let him/her seek his/her own happiness;
2) give him/her the best you can give;
3) hold on to him/her and never let go (possessiveness, probably);
4) give in unconditionally hoping one day he/she will really understand the love you have for him/her

In my understanding, LOVE is something that is so complicated and fragile yet everyone is more than willing to jump into it. And even more than willing to try again and again to get it right though they might have been hurt by LOVE.

Before the start of every relationship, I thought one should know the other party's character rather well before one starts any commitment. Why must one comes and said things like "I thought I will be able to change him/her." Pretty crappy, right? And when one wants to end it, they will simply find lots of excuses to cover their own backside. It is always so easy to push all blames to the other party. Agree?

Well, anyway, I am not here to judge anyone or anything. I am just purely voicing out my views after seeing so many unhappy incidents that happen around me recently.

As saying goes, "不在乎天长地旧，只在乎曾经拥有" and "问世间情为何物，只叫人生死相许". So, which one you belong to?

You belong to the one that do not bother if you get together eventually but just care about the feelings that you once had????? Or you are those that even die also must hug together and die?????

Me? It seems like I belong to neither.

Love is.... @ 3/20/2008 01:34:00 PM

What is Love?

I thought this does not bother me at all. For me, I feel love is all around me always. I have the love from my family, my hubby...and lots more. Since then, why would I want to bring up an issue that seems to be none of my business? That is because I see couples quarrelling then breaking up, some even ended up divorcing and that make me really stop to ponder over it. I always find it a total waste to see couples so loving in the first place but ended up in separate ways in the end. Is love that easily breakable? I thought people would always say "as long as there is love, nothing can break us through?????"

I got the meaning of LOVE from dictionary and it says...."A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness."

But really, what is love? Or rather what is love to oneself? Different people have different say to it. Some say, to love someone is to: -

1) let him/her seek his/her own happiness;
2) give him/her the best you can give;
3) hold on to him/her and never let go (possessiveness, probably);
4) give in unconditionally hoping one day he/she will really understand the love you have for him/her

In my understanding, LOVE is something that is so complicated and fragile yet everyone is more than willing to jump into it. And even more than willing to try again and again to get it right though they might have been hurt by LOVE.

Before the start of every relationship, I thought one should know the other party's character rather well before one starts any commitment. Why must one comes and said things like "I thought I will be able to change him/her." Pretty crappy, right? And when one wants to end it, they will simply find lots of excuses to cover their own backside. It is always so easy to push all blames to the other party. Agree?

Well, anyway, I am not here to judge anyone or anything. I am just purely voicing out my views after seeing so many unhappy incidents that happen around me recently.

As saying goes, "不在乎天长地旧，只在乎曾经拥有" and "问世间情为何物，只叫人生死相许". So, which one you belong to?

You belong to the one that do not bother if you get together eventually but just care about the feelings that you once had????? Or you are those that even die also must hug together and die?????

Me? It seems like I belong to neither.